Many people wanting to enjoy the benefits of successful, long term weight loss find that eating food as a way of rewarding themselves is a real and present stumbling block. Their dilemma is that many of our social interactions including celebrations are associated in some way or other with eating and drinking. The food we eat in social settings is often rich in fat, sugar or carbohydrates and not the kind of food we would find on a healthy, calories loss eating plan.
Did you win a big contract at work that the boss will probably take you out to lunch to celebrate? Do you have an important anniversary coming up when your spouse will probably make reservations at a nice restaurant? As there always seems to be a reason to celebrate in our lives, it is not surprising then that people use food to reward themselves for accomplishments.
Rewarding yourself is a healthy part of life and you should continue to do this but you need to find alternative ways of doing this and avoiding those greasy potato chips with a glass of wine at drinks on Friday night. The downside to these ways of rewarding yourself with food is poor quality of what you eat and the fact that most of this is generally too filled with fat, sugar or carbohydrates. It would never appear on your calories loss eating plan and ultimately stops you from losing weight and becoming healthier, so reward yourself differently in the following ways.
Determine what causes you to reward yourself with food, and in particular where this behaviour originated. Childhood is often the source of life long attitudes to eating especially if your parents used food high in calories like candy or ice-cream as a reward for acceptable behaviours that may have included eating other healthier foods! After you have established why you use food rewards, you will be in a better position to change this behavior either independently or with the help of a health professional.
Consciously decide NOT to reward yourself with food as part of your next celebration and replace the food and champagne at a dinner evening with rewards of a different non-calorie kind. There are plenty to choose from so go to a museum or a gallery, take an afternoon nap, take an art class or even take an extra long, hot bubble bath. Choices like these provide a reward especially tailored for you and allow you to continue with your calories loss diet and successfully lose weight.
Search out rewards that you can enjoy for an extended time, unlike food rewards that only last as long as it takes to eat them. Spend an afternoon at the beach, go to the craft store and blow $20 on any craft supplies that look fun, treat yourself to a day at a local spa or be like me and splurge of a new bottle of perfume or pair of shoes. There are endless ways of finding longer lasting rewards than foods and every time you use them, wear them or experience them they remind you that you are achieving your work or family goals as well as your health goal; sticking with your calories loss eating plan and continuing to lose weight.
Find places for celebrations near you that are not restaurants even if this requires some changes in your thinking because most of our lives revolve largely around eating and drinking. Instead of restaurants find places where the focus is more on what you do rather than what you eat and play golf, go bowling, take in a play, go to a movie or take part in any entertainment that do not focus on food. You will be surprised about how others you know will enjoy the prospect of fun without wall to wall food and drink.
Limit your participation at functions where food is a central part of the festivity as this will involve you eating food and is likely to slow your weight loss success. Consistently avoiding these events is not always possible but if you are the bridesmaid at your sister's wedding or the MC at a corporate function make sure that you enjoy the people at the event or the entertainment there rather than the food. Take special note of the food on offer and carefully select dishes that are closest to your calories loss menu and will help you reach the goal you have set yourself for a new look and healthier life. - 15255
Did you win a big contract at work that the boss will probably take you out to lunch to celebrate? Do you have an important anniversary coming up when your spouse will probably make reservations at a nice restaurant? As there always seems to be a reason to celebrate in our lives, it is not surprising then that people use food to reward themselves for accomplishments.
Rewarding yourself is a healthy part of life and you should continue to do this but you need to find alternative ways of doing this and avoiding those greasy potato chips with a glass of wine at drinks on Friday night. The downside to these ways of rewarding yourself with food is poor quality of what you eat and the fact that most of this is generally too filled with fat, sugar or carbohydrates. It would never appear on your calories loss eating plan and ultimately stops you from losing weight and becoming healthier, so reward yourself differently in the following ways.
Determine what causes you to reward yourself with food, and in particular where this behaviour originated. Childhood is often the source of life long attitudes to eating especially if your parents used food high in calories like candy or ice-cream as a reward for acceptable behaviours that may have included eating other healthier foods! After you have established why you use food rewards, you will be in a better position to change this behavior either independently or with the help of a health professional.
Consciously decide NOT to reward yourself with food as part of your next celebration and replace the food and champagne at a dinner evening with rewards of a different non-calorie kind. There are plenty to choose from so go to a museum or a gallery, take an afternoon nap, take an art class or even take an extra long, hot bubble bath. Choices like these provide a reward especially tailored for you and allow you to continue with your calories loss diet and successfully lose weight.
Search out rewards that you can enjoy for an extended time, unlike food rewards that only last as long as it takes to eat them. Spend an afternoon at the beach, go to the craft store and blow $20 on any craft supplies that look fun, treat yourself to a day at a local spa or be like me and splurge of a new bottle of perfume or pair of shoes. There are endless ways of finding longer lasting rewards than foods and every time you use them, wear them or experience them they remind you that you are achieving your work or family goals as well as your health goal; sticking with your calories loss eating plan and continuing to lose weight.
Find places for celebrations near you that are not restaurants even if this requires some changes in your thinking because most of our lives revolve largely around eating and drinking. Instead of restaurants find places where the focus is more on what you do rather than what you eat and play golf, go bowling, take in a play, go to a movie or take part in any entertainment that do not focus on food. You will be surprised about how others you know will enjoy the prospect of fun without wall to wall food and drink.
Limit your participation at functions where food is a central part of the festivity as this will involve you eating food and is likely to slow your weight loss success. Consistently avoiding these events is not always possible but if you are the bridesmaid at your sister's wedding or the MC at a corporate function make sure that you enjoy the people at the event or the entertainment there rather than the food. Take special note of the food on offer and carefully select dishes that are closest to your calories loss menu and will help you reach the goal you have set yourself for a new look and healthier life. - 15255
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